Showing posts with label Males. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Males. Show all posts

Monday, August 11, 2014

Coach Encourages Team to Join Camp Fire

John Wolfkill
Executive Director
KIPP Tulsa College Preparatory
From the perspective of a former player who is now reflecting back on his experience as a youth...

When I was in elementary school, I played baseball on the Rangers. Although I knew several of my team mates at the beginning of the baseball season, about half the team attended different elementary schools. Initially, all we had in common was our love of baseball and the uniform we wore. 

To help us grow as a team, our coach encouraged all of us to join a local Camp Fire club. Through our weekly practice, weekly Camp Fire club, and the host of other Camp Fire activities (camp outs, special events, etc.), we grew to be more than just a team, we became a close-knit group of friends who did everything together. 


Although Camp Fire's team and character building development programming did not make us better baseball players, it did make us a better team. As the season progressed, we communicated better on the field, were known as one of the most positive teams in the league (even won a few sportsmanship awards), and found ourselves on a strong winning streak by the end of the season. We became more than team mates; we became good friends. In fact, a few of my close friends today are two of my Ranger team mates. Without a doubt, those friendships and the strength of our baseball team are a direct result of our Camp Fire experience. 

John Wolfkill
Executive Director
KIPP Tulsa College Preparatory


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Deric Williams, program director of Camp Fire Green Country, Tulsa, first told us this story and then asked John to share it. Thanks to Deric and to John!











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Monday, July 28, 2014

Male Mentor-Mentee/Father-Son Activities

Read "About Ed Eason" and watch his introductory video. 'Excellent!
























We learned about this at The Mentoring Project's Long Live Mentoring conference, July 24-26, in Oklahoma City. 

http://www.mentorquest.tv/

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Thursday, December 19, 2013

Watch D.O.G.S., Part II

Norman's Watch D.O.G.S. keeps dads involved at school

Children and fathers benefit from a national program called Watch D.O.G.S., which has been adopted by five Norman schools. The program founder urged expansion of the program in a visit to Norman this week.



BY SARAH LOBBAN Modified: October 10, 2013 at 9:07 pm • Published: October 11, 2013 
                                         
With just a month of volunteering under his belt, Jed Bowers already sees the benefits of getting involved at his son Jaden's school.



At Truman Primary, where Jaden attends prekindergarten, Bowers helps with traffic control, a specific problem at that school.

When children are being picked up or dropped off, the streets often become congested, with people paying no heed to one-way signs, threatening students' safety, he said.

As a member of Truman's Watch D.O.G.S. (Dads of Great Students) program, Bowers and other fathers now direct traffic before and after school, escort students to their classrooms and generally serve as mentors to the children by getting to know them better.

Through his volunteer work, Bowers said he helps ensure the safety of students and is engaging more actively in his son's life.

Across the nation, schools are taking steps to ensure their students have a safe learning environment through Watch D.O.G.S., a program founded after a 1998 middle-school shooting in Jonesboro, Ark. Watch D.O.G.S. utilizes an often overlooked resource: fathers.

Five of Norman's elementary schools offer the program, and on Tuesday, founder Eric Snow was in Norman to urge expansion to other schools.

“The education of our children has to be the No. 1 priority in this country,” said Snow in an address to Norman parents, principals and educators at the Nancy O'Brien Performing Arts Center.

“We watched schools, and we listened to schools, and we found that these role models have a very positive impact.”

Whether it is reading aloud, monitoring the playground or simply being a presence in the hallways, the fathers, as well as uncles, grandfathers and other male family members, become more engaged in children's lives. They work closely with educators in the classroom, while acting as mentors for their own children and every student.

http://newsok.com/normans-watch-d.o.g.s.-keeps-dads-involved-at-school/article/3892017 
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Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Watch D.O.G.S., Part I


Almost everything about Watch D.O.G.S. (Dads of Great Students) at fathers.com, an excellent resource!


http://www.fathers.com/content/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=21&Itemid=60


In Oklahoma City...

Who Let the Watch D.O.G.S. Out?

By Kristen Hoyt

Oklahoma City Public Schools have tapped into the Father Involvement Initiative of the National Center for Fathering called “Watch D.O.G.S. (Dads of Great Students). This initiative organizes fathers and father figures to promote positive male role models for students and to enhance school security. Watch D.O.G.S. began in Springdale, Arkansas in 1998—and has quickly grown to 2,276 active programs in 41 states and Washington, D.C.

Across our state, schools with Watch D.O.G.S. programs have an average of 85 days throughout the year where a Watch D.O.G. dad volunteers in the school. In Oklahoma, there are currently 53 schools participating in the program, including Cleveland Elementary in Oklahoma City, where we spoke to a few of the Watch D.O.G. dads.

Thomas Cherry

Thomas Cherry, a self-employed dad of a kindergarten student, regularly volunteers once per week during the morning drop off. He opens car doors, ensures the safety of children walking to and from school and greets parents.

Mr. Cherry has helped with birthday parties, reading to and with students, providing transportation for field trips and with mailings. “Usually the moms are called upon to do many of the volunteer jobs in the school,” said Mr. Cherry. “Being self-employed, I am able to set aside some time each week to help out. It benefits me as a dad and it seems to benefit the children, too.”

Paxton Gray

Paxton Gray works the drop-off line for the morning school rush as well as the school pick-up line in the afternoons. He also assists at recess, which both helps teachers with monitoring and wards off potential bullying issues.

Mr. Gray recently helped students train for the Oklahoma City Memorial Marathon Kid’s Marathon. He walked and timed the kids on Friday afternoons, staying with them until their parents picked them up. His commitment to these kids encouraged them to participate in community events and to commit to being healthy.

Even with all that he does, Mr. Gray was modest in saying, “There are several dads and father figures who help at Cleveland. I do what I can, but there are many others, too.”

Cleveland’s Watch D.O.G.S. dads also serve as testing proctors for standardized tests and organized a flag football game to raise funds for the school. These dads are a welcome and helpful addition to the volunteers at Cleveland and several other schools in the Oklahoma City Public School District.

Positive Impacts

According to Principal Marsha Stafford, about 50 dads actively participate in Watch D.O.G.S. at Cleveland Elementary. “We have a list of dads that we can call on any time we need help,” she explains. “They help in the cafeteria, on the playground, with tutoring, with test monitoring and committees. They have even shoveled snow in the parking lot!” Stafford notes that the Watch D.O.G.S. have been particularly helpful with the school's efforts to integrate Spanish into their curriculum. “We have some dads who speak fluent Spanish and are helping us teach the curriculum and tutor students after school,” Stafford says.

But beyond the extra hands and help with special projects, Stafford sees a larger value in having dads in the school setting. “It's important for these children to see a positive male role model, especially for those who might not have a male figure in their lives,” Stafford explains. “They are forming relationships with the children and making sure the children feel very safe at school. They help make the atmosphere at Cleveland friendly, warm and accepting by modeling courtesy and respect. They help set the tone for our school.”
According to research, increased involvement by fathers has shown to result in:

·         higher grades and higher confidence levels in the student body as a whole,

·         children who enjoy school and view education as important and worthy,

·         a decrease in school-related anxiety in children, and

·         community members working hard to benefit their neighbors.

If you or your principal would like to start a Watch D.O.G.S. program at your school, access the National Center for Fathering website at www.fathers.com.

I’m not sure who let the Watch D.O.G.S. out, but I am certainly glad they did!

Kristen Hoyt is Assistant Professor and Director of Field Experience in the School of Teacher Education at MACU (Mid-America Christian University in OKC).







Monday, August 5, 2013

Resources for Mentors & Dads

Fatherless.com, a fantastic resource, has one mentoring group called Watch D.O.G.S. (Dads of Great Students), but it offers so much more, e.g., "Hot Topics," "Research," "Your Situation," "Your Kids," "Fathering Court,"etc.  To be a Watch DOG, you only must be male.  'More on this later, however, see:

Fatherless.com
1) Watch the fantastic story about WATCH D.O.G.S. from Matt Lauer and the TODAY Show, 2/11/13, featuring the great WatchDOGS of Martinsburg, WV. And thanks to all the dads and everyone involved in the program who are helping to make it a success!

http://www.fathers.com/content/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=21&Itemid=60

2) If you don't read or watch anything else, watch this video about a dad talking to a young man who comes to take his daughter to hang out. What is the young man doing wrong, and what is the father doing right?

Meeting Your Daughter's Date (video)

http://www.fathers.com/content/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=1153&Itemid=63

The "Hot Topics" section of the Fathers.com website could be used by mentors to discuss with their mentees, or it can be a lesson for dads in how to handle situations or discuss issues.

More sections of "Hot Topics" include: (Even discuss with girls!)

Daughters (20 items)
Sons (13)
Discipline (15)
Work/Family (21)
Your Dad (17)
Your Marriage (19)
Education (21)
Faithful Fathering (5)
Sex (7)
Money Matters (7)
Holidays/Seasonal (32)

Excerpt from a 2007 Edmond Outlook article about WATCH D.O.G.S.:

"In today's society, unfortunately, not every child has a positive male role model in their lives. Anytime that we can get more one-on-one with children, it's nothing but good," said Jernigan.

"The volunteer might read with the children. They might help them with flashcards or just spend time with the kids in a positive light. We have a set schedule where the volunteers are in different classrooms for about thirty minutes of the day and then on thirty-minute rotations. They also walk the perimeter of the building, and spend time at the cafeteria during lunch to help monitor and supervise the children," said [Cara]Jernigan [assistant principal at Will Rogers Elementary School, Edmond].

http://www.outlookoklahoma.com/archives/m.blog/27/2007-may-watch-d-o-g-s

Excerpt from another 2007 Edmond Outlook article:

"[Dr. Joe] Pierce [principal of West Field Elementary] implemented many programs at Orvis Risner Elementary, some of which were incorporated into the plans for West Field-Watch D.O.G.S or Dads of Great Students, who are positive role models with an extra set of eyes and ears, Reading Renaissance, which stresses the importance of reading independently, and the Fine Arts Institute, which brings art instruction to fourth graders."

http://www.outlookoklahoma.com/archives/m.blog/27/2007-july-a-winning-principal