Saturday, July 23, 2016

Outdoor Learning & Well-Being

This is the perfect follow-up to the recent  STEAM Summer Academy outing posts. Jordan Shapiro tweeted this article on July 22, 2016. 

Source: Hurst Photo/Shutterstock
Increasingly, children around the world have fewer and fewer opportunities to play and learn outdoors. Growing evidence shows that the disconnection from nature caused by urbanization and living in a digital era (along with a host of other reasons) is causing the minds and bodies of 21st century children to short-circuit on many levels.
According to a team of international experts, the lack of time spent out-of-doors is triggering a swath of unexpected negative consequences for younger generations. A new study, published today, makes a strong case for policymakers to consider the benefits of implementing outdoor learning as a cost-effective way to improve children's well-being and quality of life. 

"Nature's Peace Will Flow Into You...While Cares Drop Off Like Autumn Leaves"

Over a hundred years ago, in response to industrialization and mass migration towards city life, there was a 20th century push by people such as President Theodore Roosevelt and Sierra Club founder, John Muir, to encourage Americans to reconnect with Nature. In his 1901 book, On National Parks, Muir wrote,
"Climb the mountains and get their good tidings, Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves. As age comes on, one source of enjoyment after another is closed, but nature's sources never fail."
Library of Congress/Public Domain
John Muir circa 1902. 
Source: Library of Congress/Public Domain
We all know that our daily lives in the 21st century are dominated by portable digital devices and smartphones that have the power to sever our ties with the naturalenvironment—in ways that John Muir could have never imagined. The latest global research shows that in nations around the world, children are losing their freedom to play, explore, and be physically active in their outside environments for a wide range of complex reasons. Being denied the opportunity to explore the outdoors can have detrimental impacts on a child’s physical and psychological development. What can we do to fortify stronger connections with Nature?
In recent years, I’ve written a number of Psychology Today blog posts about the importance of the environment on a child’seducation. Over the past 10 years, there've been five significant international reviews focused on the childhood benefits of formal and informal learning in natural environments.
As the parent of an 8-year-old, I have a vested interest in keeping my finger on the pulse of the latest empirical findings on various ways to optimize a child's well-being. My hope in writing about these topics in a public forum is to be a small catalyst for creating a groundswell that motivates policymakers to think outside the box when it comes to keeping our children healthy, happy, and resilient in a topsy-turvy and rapidly changing world. 
In my opinion, the most poignant research on the benefits of spending time outdoors are reports that being immersed in nature increases loving-kindness and theory of mind. For people of all ages, the sense of wonder and awe that is inspired by nature creates a belief that there is something out there ‘bigger’ and more important than you in the universe. This tends to nurture the tendency to think globally and with less navel-gazing. Researchers have also found that kids who spend more time outdoors tend to have a stronger sense of self-fulfillment and spirituality than those who spend most of their time inside.

5 Ways Outdoor Learning Optimizes Children's Overall Well-Being

Learning that takes place in green spaces—such as parks, gardens, wildlife areas and woodland, as well as on outdoor field trips has been found to increase children's engagement and enriched the learning experience in many ways. Researchers have found using local green spaces can give children time valuable time outdoors at little or no increase to school budgets. 
The latest research identifies multiple ways that outdoor learning can have a significant and positive impact on children's well-being. In a new report, researchers present a framework which lays out how government policymakers could introduce outdoor learning as an integral element of national education policies.
The July 2016 report, "Student Outcomes and Natural Outcomes: Pathways From Evidence to Impact 2016," was produced by Plymouth University in the UK and Western Sydney University in Australia. 
The new report highlights the wide range of benefits to children of learning in the natural environment. The benefits of outdoor learning go beyond improving academic prowess. Outdoor learning also improves social skills, behavior, physical and psychological health, boosts resilienceconfidence, and a sense of place.

Outdoor Learning Improves Well-Being by Creating 5 Outcomes:

  1. Healthy and Happy Body and Mind
  2. Sociable Confident Person
  3. Self-Directed Creative Learner
  4. Effective Contributor
  5. Active Global Citizen
In a statement, Sue Waite, Reader in Outdoor Learning at Plymouth University and one of the authors of the new report, said:
"At the moment, if outdoor learning is part of a school's curriculum in England, it is largely because the teachers recognize the values of it. With so much focus on academic attainment, there can be pressure on teachers to stay in the classroom which means children are missing out on so many experiences that will benefit them throughout their lives.
This report shows that although there is significant research which supports outdoor learning for academic as well as social and personal outcomes, it is only by having that recognised by policy makers that we are likely to achieve universal positive cultural change."

Conclusion: Access to Nature Improves Well-Being Throughout Your Lifespan

The new report was produced following the Lessons from Near and Far conference led by Plymouth University in July 2015, which featured 21 international presentations intended to encourage researchers, practitioners, and policymakers to share ideas of best practice which could potentially be embedded into national outdoor learning policies. Although this research took place overseas, the findings are applicable in the United States.
I can attest to the awe-inspiring and transformative power of outdoor learning. In the 1970s, when New York City was going bankrupt, my parents decided to leave the crumbling chaos of Manhattan in pursuit of a bucolic life in rural Pennsylvania. They bought an old limestone farmhouse in Mennonite country surrounded by endless fields and green pastures close to Hershey, where they make the chocolate bars. 
We left town in our wood-paneled Chevy station wagon with John Denver songs playing on the radio around 1974... I joined 4-H and got a horse named Commander. Once in Pennsylvania, my parents let me run wild. I was free to explore the never-ending wilderness on horseback to my heart's content. I got lost sometimes, but always found my way home before sundown. It was an idyllic childhood existence. 
As I was growing up, my mom always had singer-songwriters—such as John Denver, Cat Stevens, Van Morrison, Joni Mitchell, James Taylor... who seemed to deeply value a connection with nature—in heavy rotation on the 8-Track player in the car and the turntable at home. These songs became the perfect soundtrack to have the conversion experience of an urbanite—who saw the world as a concrete jungle in black and white with lots of shades of gray—to experiencing a type of rebirth in which everything in the world suddenly sprung to life in vivid technicolor after tapping into the power of nature.
My mother and father were laid back to the point of being the antithesis of today's typical "helicopter parents." I like to think that their hands-off approach was based on a conscious decision that they wanted the experiences I had living in the country to feel autonomous and boundary-less. That said, a laid back approach to parenting was also part of the American zeitgeist of the '70s. Whatever my parents' motivation for letting go of the reins and allowing me and Commander to run free through the corn fields, it was the best education I could have gotten at the time.
To this day, whenever I hear the song "Morning Has Broken," it takes me right back to the first time I felt every cell in my body connect with the power of nature on a visceral level when I was 9 years old. It was a conversion experience that makes me crave living close and connected to nature as an adult. In closing, below is a 1971 live version of the song, which holds timeless wisdom and captures an innocence that seems to be lost these days. I'm optimistic that we can renew some of our lost innocence by fostering outdoor learning from a young age in every nation.
To read more on this topic, check out my Psychology Today blog posts, 
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Thursday, July 21, 2016

STEAM Academy Outing 2015 III: Water and More Water

The last two rotations of the OKAN's Eugene Field Elementary's STEAM academy nature outing curriculum featured water information from educators at the Oklahoma Conservation Commission, a real asset for educating people around the state about one of our most precious commodities.

Recap of presenters also mentioned in previous posts

Presenters for the "Martin Nature Park Outing" were William "Bill" Diffin, president of the Central Oklahoma Audubon Society; Linda Daxon, Central Oklahoma Beekeepers Association and an OKC realtor;  Paul Olson, Ph.D., plant biologist from the University of Central Oklahoma; his son and assistant Luke; Kim Shaw, Blue Thumb education coordinator, Oklahoma Conservation Department; Kim's intern Ariel McAffrey; Karla Beatty, education coordinator, carbon/soil health program, Oklahoma Conservation Department; and Denise Ebersbach, Edmond community volunteer. Diffin, Daxon, Olson, and Ebersbach were mentioned in the two previous posts about the outing.

Watershed/Nonpoint Presentation, Blue Thumb Program

The Blue Thumb Program uses the 3-D EnviroScape (R) Watershed/Nonpoint Source model as a hands-on, interactive demonstration to illustrate the sources and effects of water pollution. Kim Shaw's interactive lesson hammers home how we consciously and unconsciously pollute our water supply and what we can do to prevent pollution in the city and in the country. 


Kim Shaw and Eugene Field STEAM academy students
Shaw and McAffrey, her intern, show how storm water runoff carries pollutants through the watershed to a pond, lake, river, bay, or ocean. By moving items around and by adding colored water to the once clear water supply, pollution and prevention management become clear. 





Ariel McAffrey,
Blue Thumb intern

Types of watershed pollution discussed


  • Residential
  • Stormwater and storm drains
  • Forestry
  • Transportation
  • Recreation
  • Agriculture
  • Construction
  • Industrial (factory, treatment plant)



In the blue at the front of the model is the once clean water, which has been colored by adding different colored water which represents pollution from various sources. Eventually, the watershed will be entirely black. 

Some of the movable items include a storm drain pipe, bridges, houses, a barn, a factory, a treatment plant, trees, golf flags, cows, cars, a tractor, and a construction vehicle. Management practices are buffer strips, clay for making berms, manure container, soil, oils and chemicals (colored water or drinks). 

Did you know an overabundance of essential plant nutrients nitrogen and phosphorous can create overgrowth of algae, which can rob oxygen from fish and other aquatic animals? 

Willie Waterdrop's Obstacle Course 

Either after seeing examples elsewhere or by creating her own teaching tools, Karla Beatty built many of the Oklahoma Conservation Commission's hands-on activities used to illustrate the water cycle, e.g., Willie Waterdrop's Obstacle Course.



Using colored tarps, spray bottles of water, colored cones, hula hoops, beads, rope ladders on the ground, 3-D models, and much more, Beatty walks Eugene Field Elementary STEAM academy students through the cycle.


In the middle of the back is the clever 3-D representation of a toilet.

























Four stages of the water cycle

 - Precipitation

 - Collection

 - Evaporation

 - Condensation















Walking through the rain curtain























Spray to simulate rain
















Some elements discussed and experienced                      

 - Groundwater

 - Lakes

 - Snow and ice

 - Runoff

 - Plants

 - Clouds

 - Oceans

 - Sun

 - Toilets, faucets, glass, etc.


Schools and other groups may contact the Oklahoma Conservation Commission to check out trunks or to schedule presentations.

www.ok.gov/conservation


Here again is the group photo from the 2015 Martin Nature Park Outing for Eugene Field Elementary STEAM academy students. STEAM academy partners were OKAN, the City of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma City Public Schools. Outing partners were the presenters and coordinator and the Boren Mentoring Initiative. Thanks to all.





Wednesday, July 20, 2016

STEAM Academy Outing 2015 II: Biology & OK Symbols

Two other portions of the OKAN's Eugene Field Elementary's STEAM academy nature outing curriculum featured biology and Oklahoma symbols. 

Recap of presenters from previous post

Presenters for the "Martin Nature Park Outing" were William "Bill" Diffin, president of the Central Oklahoma Audubon Society; Linda Daxon, Central Oklahoma Beekeepers Association and an OKC realtor;  Paul Olson, Ph.D., plant biologist from the University of Central Oklahoma; his son and assistant Luke; Kim Shaw, Blue Thumb education coordinator, Oklahoma Conservation Department; Kim's intern Ariel McAffrey; Karla Beatty, education coordinator, carbon/soil health program, Oklahoma Conservation Department; and Denise Ebersbach, Edmond community volunteer. Diffin and Daxon were mentioned in the previous post about the birds and bees.


Plant Biology



"Dr. Paul" in true Aristotelian fashion used the peripatetic teaching method. As a plant biologist, subject matter was everywhere--up, down, and all around.  As he was about to begin with one of the rotating groups of students, Luke, his son strikes a pose. 




Dr. Paul remarked later that he would have been successful if he taught them to "Just look up!" So much wonder surrounds us, and we simply don't look or take notice. 

Note the young man on the left is looking up in a manner similar to his instructor's.




Listening to questions


That Dr. Paul Olson, a faculty member of the University of Central Oklahoma, took his time to teach and interact with these students has many effects. Although he volunteered because he is a considerate man and an advocate both of biology and educating younger students, he inadvertently performed higher education outreach. All of the volunteers represented and presented their passions well. Who can conjecture what positive ramifications this outing day may have? 



And off they go!
Oklahoma Symbols

Denise Ebersbach, an Edmond community volunteer, studied the Oklahoma symbols lesson and artifacts from the traveling trunk checked out of the Oklahoma History Museum. If you haven't looked at and used any of the resources available through the center, you should. 

For more information on the Oklahoma Symbols trunk:
http://www.okhistory.org/kids/symbols? 

Some touchables included a stuffed bison plush toy, which Ebersbach is holding in the photo; watermelon; a miniature cotton bale wrapped in burlap; rose rock; a twister in a bottle; and much more.

For example, do you know what Oklahoma's meal is?
"Fried Okra, Squash, Cornbread, Barbeque Pork, Biscuits, Sausage & Gravy, Grits, Corn, Strawberries, Chicken Fried Steak, Black-eyed Peas, and Pecan Pie"

Oklahoma's flying mammal is the Mexican Free-tailed Bat, milk is the state drink, and the honeybee is the state insect, watermelon is the state vegetable, and the state musical instrument is a fiddle. Among many other Oklahoma symbols, we have state songs. Did you know that "Faded Love" by John Willis and Bob Wills is Oklahoma's country and western song, and its rock song is "Do You Realize??" by the Flaming Lips? Check out the trunk(s)!

The outing culminated the two-week learning experience. 

OKAN, the Oklahoma Expanded Learning Network, organized the Eugene Field Summer STEAM Academy through a partnership with the City of Oklahoma City and Oklahoma City Public Schools.

Here is the group photo, also published in the first post. These were well-behaved, curious, kind, appreciative students. Bravo to Eugene Field Elementary parents and teachers for a job well done.






Tuesday, July 19, 2016

STEAM Academy Outing 2015 I: Birds & Bees

Through Community Development Block Grants administered through the City of Oklahoma City and in partnership with Oklahoma City Public Schools, OKAN, the Oklahoma Expanded Learning Network, organized two STEAM academies.

The STEAM summer academy for Eugene Field Elementary School students ended with an outing to Martin Nature Park and hands-on instruction and activities led by experts.




Presenters for the "Martin Nature Park Outing" were William "Bill" Diffin, president of the Central Oklahoma Audubon Society; Linda Daxon, Central Oklahoma Beekeepers Association and an OKC realtor;  Paul Olson, Ph.D., plant biologist from the University of Central Oklahoma; his son and assistant Luke; Kim Shaw, Blue Thumb education coordinator, Oklahoma Conservation Department; Kim's intern Ariel McAffrey; Karla Beatty, education coordinator, carbon/soil health program, Oklahoma Conservation Department; and Denise Ebersbach, Edmond community volunteer.










These Eugene Field students knew their Oklahoma birds and eagerly raised their hands to answer Diffin's inquiries.


















Diffin really made birding fun. Following a review of bird types the students would likely see and an adjustment of binoculars, the group went outdoors to "bird."












Diffin even offered his own more expensive binoculars to one of the students who had a malfunctioning binoculars.

Martin Nature Park has many trails to explore, and Diffin as well as Dr. Olson had made previous trips to the park just to reconnoiter.





He even brought bags of cat food so the fifth graders could feed the turtles and catfish. Yes, there some some catfood-gorged turtles and catfish that day.

Bees

Another portion of the nature outing curriculum featured bees. Linda Daxon, beekeeper or apiarist, gave each rotating group a riveting lesson about bees. When Denise Ebersbach asked students fresh from Daxon's presentation what they liked and learned, without hesitation they recounted much of what Daxon presented.
The Buzzzzz About Honey Bees


Daxon's wearing her bee suit and helmet with veil was exciting. With much thought and creativity, she created her own flip-chart presentation.



Normally she did not wear special shoes because bees instinctively attack enemies' eyes, hence beekeepers' wearing helmets.





As the photo shows, Daxon brought many items related to beekeeping and honey. On the right of the photo is a hive box. She also pulled a hive frame and allowed each student to taste both the fresh honey comb and pure honey. 


In addition, she picked fresh flowers to show pollen which bees collect and spread, stressed that bees are essential in pollinating crops, explained colony collapse, and gave scientific data about insecticides effect on bees, their honey, and their honeycomb--thus on us humans.

Daxon does collect some of her bees' honey and other some products that the hive produces such as beeswax, propolis, pollen, and royal jelly.  

From one of her posters:

"Did you know there are 

-  about 25,000 types of bees in the world

- about 4,000 types live in the U.S."




From another poster:

"Today we are going to talk about honey bees.

The honey bee is the only insect that makes something humans eat...honey!

The average American eats about 1.31 pounds of honey a year.

How many bees visiting how many flowers does it take to make a pound of honey?"

Although Daxon did not mention this site, The Canadian Honey Council says the answer is "two million flowers and fly 50,000 miles (80,000 km) to make one pound (454 g) of honey." 

Also "A single honey bee makes about 1 and ½ teaspoons of honey during its lifetime." 

http://www.honeycouncil.ca/chc_poundofhoney.php 

This information certainly increases the value of honey and appreciation of a bee, doesn't it?



The group photo--Eugene Field STEAM academy students, teachers, chaperones, and presenters.


The Boren Mentoring Initiative's Bev Woodrome cold-called the passionate experts to volunteer their time and expertise. Cedric Currin-Moore, OKAN's STEM director, coordinated the logistics of the day with Oklahoma City Public Schools. School bus transportation and schedule, sun screen, bug spray, drinks, and sack lunches are part of the preparations. The students left the school, arrived by bus about 9:15 a.m. and departed at 2:00 p.m. 

This is a model that can be adapted on a different scale for local communities or a specific school or class. Look around at the experts--professional and amateur--in your community.

Monday, July 18, 2016

Communicating with "I"

This author shares more helpful free information on anger management, damning and blaming, etc. Explore and use what you can and/or add to mentor training.
Communicate with “I” Statements
Say What You Thought, Not What They Did
by Kevin Everett FitzMaurice, M.S., NCC, CCMHC, LPC



“First, don’t interpret or add to what they said–just hear it and share it back.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

INTRODUCTION
“I” statements put the focus and responsibility on the communicator. Thus, they are a lot less likely to be resented.
Unlike “You” statements, which put the receiver of the communication on the defensive, “I” statements are a way to convey your message without immediately alienating your listener.
“I” statements do not guarantee success, but they are your best chance of getting your message heard.
If the person is open to considering your needs and wants, they will be much more likely to do so if you use “I” messages than if you use “You” or blaming messages. Simply, they increase your odds of being heard. Make statements, not accusations!

BASIC FORMAT
I feel . . . when . . . because . . . .
Extension 1
I feel . . . when you (do or don’t) . . . because I think . . . .
Extension 2
I felt . . . when . . . because I thought it meant . . . .
Extension 3
I feel . . . when . . . happens because I interpret it to mean that I am . . . .
Extension 4
I felt … when you did … because I took it to mean that you thought I was ….

FIRST PART
“I feel . . .”
The first part is used to state what it is that you feel about what happened, or what it was that you felt about what happened. You need only use one or two feeling words for the first part.
For example, write in “hurt, sad, afraid, mad, glad, happy, lonely, discounted, unloved, anxious, guilty, excited, ashamed, or shocked.” In Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) shorthand this is the C part.

SECOND PART
“when . . .”
The second part is used to let the other person know what the event was that you are referring to. It is the ‘what happened’ part of the “I” statement.
The second part can contain a ‘you’, and it is the only one of the three parts that you should allow to contain a ‘you’ when you are expressing hurt or angry feelings.
If you are expressing happy or excited feelings, then you can use a ‘you’ in both the second and third parts if you want to. For example, write in “when you yelled at me, when you were late, when you forgot my birthday, etc.” In REBT shorthand this is the A part.

THIRD PART
“because . . .”
The third part is used to explain what you thought about the event, about what happened. This is where you let the other person know how you interpreted the situation.
Answer this question for the third part: “What did the event mean to you?” For example, write in “I thought you didn’t like, respect, trust, care, etc., about me.” In REBT shorthand this is the B part.

RATIONAL EMOTIVE BEHAVIOR THERAPY (REBT)
Now that we know the three parts of an “I” statement, we can understand the whole expression using the paradigm, the model of REBT. According to REBT, we have most of our feelings about events, experiences, and occurrences only after we think about ourselves in relation to them.
When we use “I” statements, we are communicating in a different order from that which produced our feelings. Our feelings are last, C, but we are putting them first to disarm our listener and to defuse the communication process.
The actual order of events would be “when because feel” or A » B » C. However, we express them as “feel when because” so that our feelings are regarded as the primary message, as the part that we want to be considered most important.
EXAMPLE
“I felt embarrassed and ashamed when you found typing errors in this handout, because I thought it meant that I was a fool and inadequate.”

ADDITIONAL HELP
If the person makes the mistake of challenging your reality (see the page Don’t Argue Reality), you can then inform them that you said “I think it means” and not “it is.” The point being that you are not blaming or damning them for your feelings. Instead, you are taking responsibility for your feelings based on your thinking.
You can then say that your intent was to help them to understand how you think and feel. You can then add that it would be nice if they took how you felt and thought into consideration, but that it was not required. Additionally, you can tell them that they are free to keep their own view, perspective, or interpretation of the topic just as it was before you shared yours if they so desire.

LONG FORMAT
Here is another format that you may prefer or find useful in some situations. In this system, you use four “I” messages in rapid succession.
The correct order is: I sense …. I think …. I feel …. I want ….. The first “I” message is about what you sense, for example, what you see or hear. The second “I” message is about what you think or how you judge. The third “I” message is about what you feel. And the fourth “I” message is about what you want or desire.

BASIC LONG FORMAT
I sense . . . . I think . . . . I feel . . . . I want . . . .
Extension 1
I see you (doing) . . . . I think (what you see them doing) means . . . . I feel . . . (about what it means to or for me). I want you to (do) . . . instead.
Extension 2
I heard you say . . . . I took it to mean that . . . . I felt . . . about it (in that light or with that understanding). I would prefer it if you would . . . .
Extension 3
I was told you (did) . . . . I interpreted it to mean . . . . I then felt . . . . I wish you would . . . .
Extension 4
I smelled . . . . I believed it meant . . . . I felt . . . after thinking that about it. I would like it very much if you would . . . .

FIRST MESSAGE
“I sensed . . . .”
The first message is used to state what it is that you are experiencing. You are relating to the other person as accurate a description of your physical experience as you can. You tell them just what you see, hear, taste, smell, and touch.
You do not interpret or add to it. You do your best just to report objectively what you have observed. It is the ‘what happened’ “I” statement. For example, “I saw you talking to an attractive woman.” In REBT shorthand this is the A.

SECOND MESSAGE
“I thought . . . .”
The second message is used to let the other person know what you interpreted the event to mean. The purpose here is to tell them how you understood what you sensed. This is the ‘meaning’ “I” statement. This is where you admit to the other person how you interpreted the situation.
Convey here the meaning the event had for you and nothing else. Neither justify it nor disparage it. For example, write in “I thought you didn’t like, respect, trust, care, etc., about me.” In this example, you might say “I thought you were flirting with her.” In REBT shorthand this is the B.

THIRD MESSAGE
“I felt . . . .”
The third message conveys your feelings about what you thought about what you sensed. Be careful not to add to your feelings or to try to rationalize them here. Keep it simple. Keep it to the point.
For example, write in “hurt, sad, afraid, mad, glad, happy, lonely, discounted, unloved, anxious, guilty, excited, ashamed, or shocked.” In this example you might say, “I am feeling jealous of your attentions to her.” In REBT shorthand this is the C.

FOURTH MESSAGE
“I want . . . .”
The fourth message is used to express what you want the other person to do differently for you. This message is used to make requests, to seek changes from the other person. For example, “I would prefer it if you would not spend so much time with attractive and available women when we go to parties.”

GOAL FOR “I” MESSAGES
You may still not get what you want. But at least you shared your experiences, gave the other person your reasons, and shared your feelings with them.
If they chose to respond, all well and good. But if they did not. You still managed to express your true self. Being able to say what you think and feel–without blaming others for it–is a true measure of mental health.

Additional and Related Information
Styles of communicating: 25 Relational Styles
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)REBT’s ABCs of Emotions
Advanced “I” Messages: “I” Statements–Advanced

from website
QUOTATIONS VARIOUS SOURCES
“Two monologues do not make a dialogue.”–Jeff Daly
“Most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness.”–Margaret Millar
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”–Dr. Seuss
“There are very few people who don’t become more interesting when they stop talking.”–Mary Lowry
“Some man holdeth his tongue, because he hath not to answer: and some keepeth silence, knowing his time.”–Ecclesiasticus 20:6
“Treat a man as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be, and he will become what he should be.”–Ralph Waldo Emerson
“The most precious things in speech are pauses.”–Ralph Richardson
“Don’t speak unless you can improve on the silence.”–Spanish proverb
“Foolishness always results when the tongue outraces the brain.”–Unknown
“Among my most prized possessions are words that I have never spoken.”–Orson Card
“Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.”–Proverbs 16:24
“Draw me not away with the wicked, and with the workers of iniquity, which speak peace to their neighbours, but mischief is in their hearts.”–Psalms 28:3
“But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;”–I Peter 1:15
“The first duty of love is to listen.”–Paul Tillich, 1886-1965


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